Strong in life. Exhausted in love.
The Love Engineer is a coaching practice dedicated to helping strong, capable women create relationships that feel supportive rather than exhausting. Many women excel in every area of life, yet in love find themselves stuck in familiar patterns.
The men who feel safe seem uninspiring, while the ones who create excitement often leave them carrying the emotional load. In relationships, they become the planner, the organiser, the problem-solver, wondering why their partner cannot meet them at the same level.
The Love Engineer exists to change that experience. It is built on a simple truth: no one is broken. Many women have simply learned that being in control is the safest way to move through the world. Relationships begin to feel unbalanced not because of a lack of effort, but because letting go has never felt safe.
Drawing on an engineering mindset of understanding how systems truly work, The Love Engineer offers a practical and compassionate approach to relationship coaching. The focus is not on quick fixes or dating tactics, but on helping women shift long-held patterns, regulate their nervous system, and step into partnerships where they no longer have to lead alone.
This work is for women who want a relationship that supports them, matches them, and allows them to soften without losing their strength. At The Love Engineer, the aim is simple: to help love feel lighter, steadier and genuinely shared, so that partnership becomes a place of ease rather than effort.
If you are ready to experience love that meets you where you are, The Love Engineer provides the guidance and support to help you get there.